Help Is Just An Email Away

Help Is Just An Email Away

Until Monday 8-31-2015, I will be running a trial offer of email services to those who are interested in working with me but for whom my current service delivery model does not work for whatever reason.

I want no barriers between wanting help and getting it!

You can work with Rev. Michele from Anywhere In The World!

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Invalidating the MOST Destructive Belief-(“I’m Not Good Enough”) With Logic

Invalidating the MOST Destructive Belief-(“I’m Not Good Enough”) With Logic

I’m not good enough!

We already discussed how this belief may have occurred. Now let’s challenge it’s validity; it’s truth! Let’s tear down the walls this belief has bulit around you to keep people out!

I’m not good enough for what?

And

Who Says So?

If you’re lacking confidence and have low self-esteem, like I was, it is likely you’re holding this belief. Here is what I have learned.

  1. In some cases, people may have said things to us that lead us to believe this. But in most cases, it is something we came up with on our own. It is something we came to believe because we compared ourselves to other people: to the way they looked or to what they had or who they had.
  2. In cases of abuse, neglect and abandonment, it wasn’t you. Thebeliefs created are false and a result of assuming our treatment was a reflectionof our worth. You didn’t deserve the treatment you received and you didn’t cause it. You were dealing with someone who was damaged and/or something that had nothing to do with who you were.
  3. In other cases, we interpreted how people treated us as proof that we weren’t good enough. But:
    • Because we teach other people how to treat us by the example of how we treat ourselves, it is our lack of self-respect, self-esteem and self-love that basically gives other people permission to treat us as badly as we treat ourselves.
    • When we allow others to treat us in a disrespectful manner, it gives them permission to continue to do so. We’re responsible for the boundaries we allow and for the treatment we’re willing to accept, from ourselves and others.

When we carry this belief, we don’t have and don’t demonstrate self-respect or self-love, which people see, and follow our lead.

It is important that you understand that:

  • Everyone is doing the best they have with the tools, knowledge and presence of mind they have at any given moment will help you understand that oftentimes, the treatment you received had nothing to do with you.
  • Pain can cause you to misinterpret the behavior of others.

Know that this belief is harming you, your relationships and your potential success in life. Know that this belief is a false assumption you told yourself and turned into a belief as a result of your experiences: to make sense of your negative experiences. Why else would all this crap happen to me if it wasn’t because I deserved it; because I’m just not good enough? (See below.)

About Beliefs

We all have beliefs; some of them we’re aware of and others we aren’t. We learned many of our beliefs about ourselves by how we were treated and how others reacted to us. Some things were trained to believe, while others you may have inherited by force, adopted by default or chosen to fit in.

Regardless of whether we know about them or not, they have a major impact on how our lives take shape and run. They affect us either positively or negatively. The good news is we can choose our beliefs!

By becoming aware of all our beliefs and deciding which ones help us and which ones hider or hurt us, we can change the course of our lives. We can let go of those that don’t serve us; ones that may have served a purpose earlier in our lives to keep us safe, and ones that were never helpful in the first place.

 

May you perceive and receive all your blessings.

With Much Love,

Rev. Michele

Copyright © 2013 Indigo Sky, LLC; All Rights Reserved

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Self-Forgiveness (Part 3)

Self-Forgiveness (Part 3)

Healing By Letting Go: Self-Forgiveness – Part 3
How to Forgive Yourself

There are many different methods you can choose from to release the pain, cut the tether that binds you to the source of your pain and to your past, and let go of those painful thoughts and beliefs that no longer serve you. But really it all boils down to choice.

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Self-Forgiveness (Part 2)

Self-Forgiveness (Part 2)

Healing By Letting Go: Self-Forgiveness-Part 2

What to Forgive Yourself For

Logic is the quickest way to help you understand that you deserve to be forgiven; for everything and anything you have ever done or will ever do. Here is some logic to convince you.

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Self-Forgiveness (Part 1)

Self-Forgiveness (Part 1)

Healing By Letting Go: Self-Forgiveness -Part 1:

Why Should I Forgive Myself?

Gaining self-acceptance is the first giant step toward achieving clearer perception and ending suffering. It also has the added benefits of healing many of our thoughts and our limiting beliefs.

Forgiving oneself is the final step in gaining unconditional self-acceptance.

It is also the first intentional step toward healing, and toward extending your acceptance out to others.

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Need a Confidence Boost? Let Me Tell You How Amazing You Are

Need a Confidence Boost? Let Me Tell You How Amazing You Are

I am an instrument of peace and love. My mission is to elevate the collective consciousness and raise the universal vibration, one person at a time. Today it’s you!

I believe in an orchestrating power in the universe. I believe in Sacred Contracts. I believe we are eternal spiritual beings living a physical existence.

According to A Course In Miracles, “My mind is part of God’s mind, I am very holy and my holiness blesses the world.”

I do believe I am a holy vessel. I can perceive things more clearly than most. I can see from a higher perspective. And I am here to tell you that you are not who and what you think you are.

Your true essence is a compassionate, loving, king, and peaceful spirit. This essence is obscured by the collection of limiting beliefs, fears, anger, sadness, insecurity, and pain you have accrued since childhood (and sometimes in past lives).

Choosing thoughts and beliefs that enhance your belief in yourself are in your best interest.

If you can accept and integrate the following into your belief system, your perception will change and you can reveal your true essence. With these, your perception of yourself, other people, your relationships, and your life will change. Therefore, your perception of yourself, other people, your relationships, and your life will change.

After everything I tell you I want you to follow it up with telling it to yourself. See how it ‘sits’ with you. How does it make you feel?

  1. You are a Divine child of the universe. [I am a Divine child of the universe.]
  2. You are lovable, valuable and deserving. You are worthy.  [I am lovable, valuable and deserving. I am worthy.]
  3. You are worthy of your own acceptance and approval. [I am worthy of my own acceptance and approval.]
  4. You are on this planet, at this time, for a specific purpose. You have a unique combination of strengths, skills, talents, and gifts. [I am on this planet, at this time, for a specific purpose. I have a unique combination of strengths, skills, talents, and gifts.]
  5. Your best is good enough. You are good enough just as you are. [My best is good enough. I am good enough just as I am.]
  6. You are an imperfect human striving to learn, grow, heal, and awaken to your spirit-self You are a work in progress. You are evolving to become the best version of you. [I am an imperfect human striving to learn, grow, heal, and awaken to my spirit-self. I am work in progress. I am evolving to become the best version of me.]
  7. You are in the perfect body with the perfect life-circumstances, to learn the lessons you came back to learn. [I am in the perfect body with the perfect life-circumstances, to learn the lessons I came back to learn.]
  8. You are a spiritual being having a physical experience. [I am a spiritual being having a physical experience.]
  9. You are a vibrating, energetic being. [I am a vibrating, energetic being.]
  10. Perception creates reality. You create your experiences with your perceptions, expectations, attitudes, and desires. Things are only good or bad because you perceive them to be. [I create my experiences with my perceptions, expectations and desires. Things are only good or bad because I perceive them to be.]
  11. You can never be a failure or a loser. You can fail at tasks and goals, but they serve as learning experiences. No one succeeds all the time. [I can never be a failure or a loser. I can fail at tasks and goals, but they serve as learning experiences. No one succeeds all the time.]

It is in your own best interest to accept what you are: all that you really are and start experiencing your life from a higher perspective.

If you know someone who could use a boost in confidence and/or a change in perception, please forward this to them and help me spread these messages.

 

Want More? 

Need a Confidence Boost? #2: Power Edition

 

May you perceive and receive all your blessings.

With Much Love,

Rev. Michele

Copyright © 2013 Indigo Sky, LLC; All Rights Reserved

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Identifying Levels of Needs: For Relationship Compatibility and Self-Awareness

Identifying Levels of Needs: For Relationship Compatibility and Self-Awareness

Knowing your needs is the key to self-awareness and to having good relationships. Identifying your level for each of the most common needs will be of great value in order to understand yourself. It will also help you choose a well-suited career path and a compatible partner, before committing to either. This is because it will help you know what to look for in order to satisfy your needs and thus, optimize your chance for satisfaction and fulfillment.

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What Am I? Part 1

What Am I? Part 1

We are all living as human beings with strengths and weaknesses, talents and skills, flaws and attributes, limitations and power beyond our imagination. We are not designed to be perfect; perfection requires no improvement. We can always improve; these are to be our accomplishments- to improve, to be better, to become the best version of ourselves. We are all here to learn and grow into living as spiritual beings with physical bodies.

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Books That Changed Me: Every Word Has Power by Yvonne Oswald

Books That Changed Me: Every Word Has Power by Yvonne Oswald

There is no one thing that changed for me to put in the title. This book changed my beliefs and understanding which changed my perception. It also, and maybe more importantly, changed the way I thought and spoke; it changed my behavior. It made me conscious of my choice of words, both spoken silently to myself and aloud to others.

Every Word Has Power is a transformative tool that teaches us how to reprogram our unconscious mind. The unconscious mind is “…designed to give you what you focus on.”

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